Read Wendy\'s answers to question of lesbian personals users or write to her with your own question about your lesbian personals experience.

Dear Wendy,

I?ve met a wonderful girl at a lesbian personals site. We share the same interests. We speak the same language. She sent me some pictures and she?s gorgeous. We?ve been dating online for 3 months and now we want to meet in person. I?m afraid that meeting in person won?t be as wonderful as online dating. What do I do?Jenny M.

Dear Jenny,

You seem to be worrying needlessly. The way you describe her, this girl suits you. The fact that there?s physical attraction and common interests gives the relationship big chances to succeed. There is nothing to fear.

Many people new to online lesbian personals feel this way, when it comes to meeting their date for the first time. Just relax and you\'ll be fine. Remember that a great relationship awaits you.

Yours,
Wendy

Dear Wendy,
I am a 25 year-old girl, who?s been dating a 35 year-old woman I met through a gay and lesbian personals site. We have a passionate relationship. However, sometimes the difference of age is a real obstacle, and we fail to understand each other?s needs. Last Saturday, she got mad at me, because I went out with my college friends, and didn?t meet her. Does our relationship have a future? Joan G.

Dear Joan,
Dating an older woman can be hard. Girls in their twenties want to have fun, go out with their friends, and enjoy their freedom. A woman in her thirties is more settled down, and, in general, looks at dating in a different way. She might have different needs in a relationship.

You don?t mention how long you?ve been dating, or whether you are still using lesbian personals and meeting other women. In any case, you shouldn?t feel you?re sacrificing your social life for her if that\'s what you feel you need right now. If she got upset because you went out with your friends check out if it a serious issue or just a bit of lovers jealousy.

Yours,
Wendy